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Earlier today my mom and I were talking about some of the things in our lives that have changed recently. As we were talking we came to the realization that many people around us have a hard time adjusting to change and they tend to vocalize all the things they don't like about what ever it is that changed. The most common response being, "It's so different now" or some variation of that.
The key word here is different. If something changes then it is different, right? So then are we afraid of change or differences that change reveals to us?
I could do an entire blog post about how vital differences are in our lives. But, I will save that for some other time.
However, I do think it is important to quickly point out. I won't get too into this, but it is important to remember that the vast amount of differences in our world are what allow the immense beauty around us to stand out. If every flower looked, smelt and grew the exact same it wouldn't amaze us every time it bloomed. Differences are wonderful and as things change the differences are what shine through the most.
But sometimes people see change as a bad thing and not something that is necessary or good. Instantly when something changes they voice their complaints. "I don't like this". "I don't like that". "But this isn't the same". "That's different now". This frustrates me because they fail to even attempt to see the bigger picture. They fail to notice all the benefits that this new change can bring. I have definitely had this outlook before on things that have changed, but I am learning to roll with the flow of life. It isn't always easy though.
This is how I picture this in my mind: You are driving down a road that is familiar to you and that you are comfortable with. Your co-pilot is God and he shows you a different road to go down. A road you have never ventured down, it scares you. At the end of your road is a bridge, but little do you know the bridge is out. If you ignore the new change and refuse to accept the differences it will bring you aren't allowing the Lord to lead you and you may just find yourself in a bit of a pickle once you reach that bridge.. Letting go of the wheel and letting God take control can be really hard. Leaving behind what is comfortable and jumping into what is new and different can be scary but it can be rewarding in the end, not just for us but for those around us. When we so strongly hold on and don't embrace change we aren't allowing God to bring us to new opportunities that will bless us in the end.
Now I understand not all change is good change. Sometimes things change for the worst and that is sad and upsetting. But I truly believe that something good comes out of EVERY situation, no matter how bad it may be. The loss of a loved one might allow you to bring healing and comfort to a friend who also lost someone close to them. A bad breakup may bring wisdom and insight to those who are struggling with a relationship as well. Hurt and pain don't have to be the end. Healing and hope can come out of even the hardest situations.
Even though accepting change or differences can be very hard and depending on the situation seemingly impossible. But change is vital in life. Learning to let things change can be a daunting task but if you let God take control of your life, these changes can bring you to such amazing opportunities.
"The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance."
-Alan Watts
Love Always,
xo Noelle
This is how I picture this in my mind: You are driving down a road that is familiar to you and that you are comfortable with. Your co-pilot is God and he shows you a different road to go down. A road you have never ventured down, it scares you. At the end of your road is a bridge, but little do you know the bridge is out. If you ignore the new change and refuse to accept the differences it will bring you aren't allowing the Lord to lead you and you may just find yourself in a bit of a pickle once you reach that bridge.. Letting go of the wheel and letting God take control can be really hard. Leaving behind what is comfortable and jumping into what is new and different can be scary but it can be rewarding in the end, not just for us but for those around us. When we so strongly hold on and don't embrace change we aren't allowing God to bring us to new opportunities that will bless us in the end.
Now I understand not all change is good change. Sometimes things change for the worst and that is sad and upsetting. But I truly believe that something good comes out of EVERY situation, no matter how bad it may be. The loss of a loved one might allow you to bring healing and comfort to a friend who also lost someone close to them. A bad breakup may bring wisdom and insight to those who are struggling with a relationship as well. Hurt and pain don't have to be the end. Healing and hope can come out of even the hardest situations.
Even though accepting change or differences can be very hard and depending on the situation seemingly impossible. But change is vital in life. Learning to let things change can be a daunting task but if you let God take control of your life, these changes can bring you to such amazing opportunities.
"The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance."
-Alan Watts
Love Always,
xo Noelle
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